Monday, July 19, 2010
Author Robert Green in his book, The 33 Strategies of War writes, "Child psychologist Jean Piaget saw conflict as a critical part of mental development. Through battles with peers and then parents, children learn to adapt to the world and develop strategies for dealing with problems."
The author continues on reiterating the importance of not backing away from battles throughout adolescence and adulthood:
"it is through your battles that you learn what works, what doesn't, and how to protect yourself."
The Quick Conclusion: No matter your age, learn to embrace your battles. The younger the better.
Unfortunately our day and age has taught us to do everything possible to protect us from going into battle:
We want to be secured a position on the team, instead of giving them no choice to put you in the starting lineup.
We travel around the country attempting to expose talent to scouts, instead of spending that time becoming a master at our skills.
We settle for jobs we hate instead of actually doing what we want to do.
We choose to be mediocre because we are afraid of being exposed for who we really are.
We don't stand up for something we really believe in because we are afraid of not being liked.
We keep ourselves busy with meaningless tasks instead of actually focusing on the one or two things that could really change our lives.
We let others decide what's best for us, and thus, have no passion, power, or meaning in what we do.
We spend hours on the Internet, checking our email, seeing what our "friends" are doing on facebook, instead of using that time to work on something that could change our's and others lives.
And in the end...we make make far more excuses than we make progress.
John Maxwell recently gave a talk called, Why John Wooden's Teams Won. Maxwell observed...
"He (Coach Wooden) achieved personal victories before he lead his team to victory. He won the battle of self. He has disciplined his own life, and has won his main victory. This allowed him to also show other people how to be victorious."
To win the battle over yourself should be number one on the agenda. To do this, show up to your sessions of CONFLICT THERAPY.
In these sessions you can see what we are made of. In these sessions is you'll gain perspective you need to let your gifts, talents, and passions come to life.
It is never a good idea to go into battle with someone who has never been tested. Or as I like to paraphrase, "never trust an un-broken man." Only the tested and broken man can truly lead others into victory over themselves. Anyone else is a poser...a fake.
Who would want to go to battle with you?
This Week...Decide to do something significant with your life. Try for one entire day not to make one excuse. I think you'll be surprised on how many you actually drum up.
This Week...Go get some CONFLICT THERAPY. Then GO passionately share your stories of struggle and triumph with others. You're life and the lives of those you touch will begin to change.
As Thomas Jefferson was quoted, "When the heart is right, the feet are swift."
Below is a clip of one of my all-time favorite movies. It is all about conflict therapy. It is about discovering who you are through a seemingly impossible fight. It's about knowing what your fighting for. It's about what happens inside you when you're backed into a corner. It's about knowing what you stand for. And most of all, it's about continually winning the victory over yourself.
HAVE A GREAT WEEK MY FRIENDS!!
Posted by Liberation Tour at 1:47 AM